Stop Being So Easily Offended - BrianaDragon Creations

Stop Being So Easily Offended

Be sure to check out our shop! New customers get a 5% off coupon!
swear angry
Posted by / April 3, 2013 / 0 Comments

This site is completely ad-free. Please Support us by making a donation.

Image: Public Domain, Pixabay

Image: Public Domain, Pixabay

I’m always encouraging people to be more honest. I really think that people need to stop lying so much. I’ve found one reason among many that causes a lot of people to lie.

People are too easily offended. They take everything to heart, and read negativity into plain facts. Or they twist things into something into negativity due to events of their past. People like to feel hurt and put down. It’s messed up, but it’s true.

There are a lot of people who will lie to others because they don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. They know that they mean no harm and they’re just telling the truth, but they’ll lie instead because others are too sensitive. They take things wrong and get hurt or angry. It’s not the teller’s fault, it’s the recipients, but it changes the way people interact.

If people would get a grip on themselves, we could be more honest. I learned long ago to not take everything people say to heart, and not to read into what they say. I don’t always succeed, but I try my best. I pay attention for personal opinion versus fact. I do not get offended over opinion. I’ve been called every name in the book in several languages, I just laugh at it or ignore it now. I also don’t assume that there is some hidden evil meaning or motive behind what others say, the way most people do.

Really, people need to get a grip. Grow up. Take honesty for what it is. When you find out that someone lied to you to save your feelings you’re just going to be p!ssed at them for having not been honest, so why not be the kind of person who can take honesty and cut out all the intermediate BS?

Can you take people being honest with you? Are you constantly looking for hidden negative meaning in what people say to you? Are you willing to be more honest and accept more honesty?

Disclaimer: Links on this site may lead to affiliate sources to help support this blog. We appreciate all purchases, but you are under no obligation. Not all linked products have been tested by the site owners.

Related:

What Are You Teaching Yourself?
Views 350
I don't mean in the traditional sense, like with books and such. I'm talking about something much more subtle and just as far reaching. I'm talking a...
The Way of Universal Balance: What Do You Follow?
Views 328
If one follows the Way of Universal Balance, it makes sense that one would need to know what or who they're following. Unfortunately, this is not an e...
Hemp (Cannabis sativa) Seeds Herbs for Spells and ...
Views 614
You Get: 1 packet seeds | Herbs for spells Features 200 seeds Comes in an individually hand folded origami envelope, tied with pure white...
Gender Equality In Toys: There’s A Better Way
Views 229
There's been a lot of talk lately about the gender inequality in toys that are currently on the market. parents want better toys for their daughters w...

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

*
*

Do NOT follow this link or you will be banned from the site!