I was recently reading an article about women’s preferences regarding penis size, and it got me to thinking about something I’ve seen with a lot of men.
A lot of men very foolishly believe that as the man, the one with the penis, they’re good at making love. The simple fact that they possess that physical aspect, in their minds, gives them sexual ability. I hate to burst your bubble boys, but that is completely untrue.
The size of it doesn’t make you a good lover either. As a matter of fact, there’s a point when it’s just too big. No matter what horrid things you’ve learned from bad porn, a woman can only handle just so much, and after a point (around 8 inches erect) it’s just going to waste. Being hung like a horse doesn’t mean you know what to do with it. Sometimes a guy with a much smaller member is going to be able to outperform you.
The fact is that skill in lovemaking is something that has to be learned over time. You have to learn what to do with that protrusion. Banging everything you can won’t teach you much either. Experience is part of the equation, but only part. You also need to understand how women work, and how to adapt to each new lover.
Men mistakenly think that all women are the same during sex, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. We’re all a little different, and some are very different. What we like and how and when is varied. You need to understand the woman you’re with right now in order to please her. You need to listen, observe and adapt. That will make you a good lover. Talk to her, figure out what drives her wild, despite anything you’ve learned from others. There’s the key to being a dynamo in the bedroom.
Ladies also need to realize not all guys are the same either. They may be easier than us, but they have varied interests and desires too. You need to be as attentive to them and their uniqueness as you want them to be to yours.